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Think of the dome of cologne, a great cathedral. 300years. Generations. You must take pride in the work of your ancestors for you to be willing to meet their standards. Otherwise you will have a hard time taking pride in your own work.

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It's gone even farther than people being convinced not to pass their families stories onto their children, I've seen videos of women saying that we need to stop celebrating marriage as if it's the most important thing a woman can do in her life. They say we should celebrate getting into college, getting a good job, or other generally transient periods in ones life with the same vigor and importance that choosing a good LIFE PARTNER gets. I'm sorry but choosing a good spouse has almost immeasurable impact on the rest of your life (arguably so does choosing a lousy spouse, this just is immeasurably poor or frustrating impact generally) but it seems that a lot of women have been taught that the important part is the wedding, the party, not the part that comes after. If people struggle to even build strong lasting companionship bonds then we have fewer opportunities to pass on our families history to begin with whether people think that's worthy or not.

Also, I find it a load of bullshit hypocrisy that the side screaming about how we shouldn't be proud of our ancestors/family history because it wasn't us also wants to hold us as guilty because of the sins of our ancestors. You can't have it both ways.

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